ashford gets dressed

KIRSTEN DUNST AT THE CRITICS' CHOICE AWARDS

2012-01-13T22:00:00.001-05:00

Perfect party look from part-time fashionista Kirsten Dunst.

HOLIDAY WISH LIST

2011-12-04T23:49:00.001-05:00

A few of the things I'm hoping to see wrapped tightly under the Christmas tree.

1. Giada de Laurentiis cookware: The barely-bisque glaze on this Food Network star's line of bakeware satisfies my inner designer-slash-domestic-goddess. The fact that it's from Target adds a slash-deal-lover. (Target, $9.99-$49.99)

2. Prada Candy: It's new and I'm in love. (Nordstrom, $80.00)

3. Sperry Top Sider Shearwater: If I have to dredge through snow for a solid month or two, I might as well be doing it in gold grommets and slim quilting. And they're waterproof, natch. (Sperry, $98.00)

4. Emily Post's Etiquette, 18th edition. All the etiquette from the past 90 years navigates the murky waters of social media and internet faux pas.#yesplease (Barnes and Noble, $27.00)

5. Starbucks gift card. Treating myself one salted caramel hot chocolate at a time. (Starbucks)

What's on your list this year?

C'EST LA VIE: THE LUCKY MAGAZINE CONTEST CONTINUES

2011-10-08T02:06:00.000-04:00

I had a bit of an emergency Monday night (took a friend to the ER, but don't worry she's fine now) and wasn't able to turn in a completed entry for the Lucky Magazine contest before the deadline. The challenge this time is called "My Best Connection," and here's what I intended it to look like. If you like what you see, please give it a few votes - I am totally out to win this!

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HANDS DOWN MY BEST CONNECTION

Of course, it has to be my sister.

It could be because she's my only sister, but there are a whole host of other reasons - both hilarious and sartorial - why Rachel is my best connection. Truth be told, it wasn't always that way. At age 16, Rachel packed her bags and headed for college (two years early, mind you, being the ambitious Aries that she is), while I was still navigating the halls of raging hormones, a collective experience we like to call the seventh grade. I was fashionably experimental (hello, vintage Pac-man lunchbox), but also super studious. She was wild and brave and beyond cool. The only common grounds we shared at the time was a cup of coffee every morning, and mine was mostly milk and sugar. Hers, I'm sure, was black and mature.

So when I showed up at Rachel's door in 2005, with a duffel bag in hand and essentially homeless, we didn't really know one another. I mean, really know each other. It was the eve of Hurricane Katrina, and there I was, a senior in college evacuating from New Orleans to Baton Rouge with no home, no job, no school, no car, and only two pairs of shoes (one of which were flip-flops) to call my own. Somehow Rachel managed to provide all of those things and more. She herself was a student, so we made things work by sharing everything--literally. If you were there, you would have seen us cruising around town in our 1985 red Thunderbird (red interiors, natch) and meticulously planning our daily work, school, and eat schedules together, which were basically the same.

It wasn't the first time the twisted hands of fate had thrown us together in less-than-ideal circumstances. Growing a wild streak of my own, in the span of two weeks, I sold everything I owned, shipped four boxes to NYC, and then made the 1,100 mile trip myself. I was dreaming big, and apparently, so was she. Three months later, Rachel followed suit.

Oh, yes, it sounds glamourous, and in a sense, it was. But this was the height of the recession, and what really happened is that we spent seven long months living together in a nice, but very tiny studio (which shared a galley kitchen with the neighboring apartment, by the way) equipped with one queen-size bed and one closet between us. We scraped by, together, and I nearly threw the TV out the window at some point (I believe the argument had to do with who was going to carry the pot of chili to a Christmas gathering), but we made it out alive. Barely.

Fast forward two years and two apartments later, and we're still here in New York City making our wildest dreams come true. Or at least trying to. It certainly hasn't been easy, but we can now proudly show off our own rooms and our own closets--not that we don't ever go peeking through the other's. Here, we give you a look at some of our favorite trends for fall--note the NYC background!

You're both wearing some of the season's biggest trends (buttoned-up collars, printed pants, platforms), and yet your looks are completely different. How would you describe your style?
Rachel: I would consider my style refined-rocker-gypsy. That's the first thing that comes to mind.
Ashley: I'd say I'm more of an off kilter ladylike kind of girl. I like structured pieces mixed with an oddity or two, just to keep things from getting too stuffy.

If you could choose any designer to wear for the rest of your life, who would you choose?
Rachel: Missoni. I just feel like they could dress me for any occasion.
Ashley: Prada. It's been a long distance love affair since age 12.

When you're out shopping together, how do you pick out clothes for one another?
Rachel: It's pretty much if something catches my eye but it's a little too feminine or a color I don't wear, it's probably for Ashley.
Ashley: Yeah, I choose things for Rachel based on what I like, but with more "stuff" going on. I wouldn't say tacky, but maybe more embellished? . . . Whatever it is, Rachel can totally pull it off.
Rachel: Plus, it helps that we somehow ended up with completely different body types. So whatever looks good on her usually doesn't work for me, and vice versa. It's actually kind of perfect.

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First, register or log in here: http://lcky.mg/po9Ojr

Then view my entry (and vote!) here: http://bit.ly/n896Ri

Thank you, thank you. I can't say it enough!

Photo credits (all were edited by me):

Runway shots - Style.com

Mac eyeshadow - mac.com

Sephora lipstick - sephora.com

WHAT NY'S DOING THIS WEEKEND

2011-10-04T17:45:00.000-04:00

First up, is a grand event at ye olde Vintage Thrift featuring the very best designer collectibles and vintage wearables from their archives. There's bound to be some amazing jewelry, fantastic shoes, and unique fall items as far as the eye can see. On my list, a wooly vintage coat--preferably in a coccoon shape.

Then, on Saturday, it's off to the Vintage Pop-up Party with even more vintage goods and reconstructed pieces. There's going to be DJs, drink specials, and of course, loads of good vintage. Get loose with it, and suddenly you'll wonder why you never thought you could pull off a disco jumpsuit before. Smashing!

See you there?

MY GOLDEN BIRTHDAY

2011-09-30T00:33:00.001-04:00

Y'all, I have been busy. Like, so busy it's unreal. All with exciting projects, of course, but what else is new?

Well, I had a birthday this week. My GOLDEN birthday, at that! It totally sneaked up on me in between my Lucky magazine contest entries (see sidebar) and an event I'm planning with New York's #1 thrift shop, Vintage Thrift. ( Look at the awesome flier we made! Styled by yours truly!)

And now back to the birthday. I'm a very lucky girl in that I could totally not plan anything at all and still have a few loving friends who filled my day with all sorts of surprises. Just look at this cake! When I first sliced into it, I thought it was going to be strawberry, but as I kept going, so did the colors. Yep, it's a homemade pastel rainbow cake. Six layers!

My sis surprised me with gifts and treats galore, including this super cute new workout shtuff, caramel salty ice cream, rosemary/sea salt/and raspberry jam butter cookies (so yum), and these MISSONI FOR TARGET PIECES. I mean, how did she get them?!

Well, truth be told, my sister travels for work every week and happened to be in LA for opening day. Not the ideal city to be in, but perhaps slightly better than NY. After scrambling to three different Targets, she managed to scrounge up two pairs of zigzag socks and a gigantic mug (sorry, no pics, that one's already been moved to my office).

And this super cool bracelet was created by my friend Shelby, who also made the cake. Since I'm usually the one doing the gift-making, I was thrilled to get these awesome gifties. I think they are the first presents anyone has ever made me, save for a few valentines I can recall.

LUCKY MAGAZINE AND REVLON'S SEARCH FOR A NEW CONTRIBUTOR

2011-09-18T06:45:00.000-04:00

If you've been following along, you may have noticed that I'm in the running to become Lucky Magazine's newest lifestyle contributor. In the previous round of challenges, I was voted into the top 10 (out of 250) entries!

For this round, we were challenged to create a themed dinner party for four. I stuck to my roots and combined two of my favorite inspirations, New Orleans and the 1920s, to create a new New Orleans tradition. I'm calling it "Bourbon & Black," and it's a far cry from Mardi Gras.

Take a moment to check out my party (I worked SO hard on it!), and if you like what you see, please, please, please click that vote button at the bottom of my page! You'll get registered with Lucky Magazine (no subscription required, fellow bloggers), which means you can enter all of their monthly giveaways, too. [Side note: I may or may not be that crazy person who, when unable to sleep, finds herself entering to win all sorts of freebies. When I was eighteen, I actually won a White Oleander prize pack from Seventeen magazine and two years ago, I won Fashion Chalet's Tolani scarf/Chickdowntown.com giveaway.]

Once you're all set, remember to go back to my entry page to vote!

FASHION VIDEOS ARE MY NEW JAM

2011-09-17T17:25:00.002-04:00

COAT VOTE

2011-09-12T01:49:00.000-04:00

I'm pretty sure I already know which one I'm going with--and which one is on its way back to the store. Still, I thought it could be fun to see what you all think.

I like the stand-up collars and length on both. The first one is sort of 60s swing style and buttons up; the second is sleeker, with modern details like faux leather trim and gold zippers. Both are from Zara, my go-to store, which is now available stateside through the magic of the internet!

REVLON & LUCKY MAGAZINE'S SEARCH FOR A NEW CONTRIBUTOR

2011-09-03T19:45:00.000-04:00

Revlon's "Lilac Pastelle," a summer favorite.

Click the caption to vote for me as Lucky magazine's newest contributor. I'm nearly in the top 10!

Vote Ashley Knox, Ooh la la! "Natural Glamazon."

yeah!

HOLD THAT THOUGHT: KAREN ELSON & RAQUEL ZIMMERMAN KILL IT IN LANVIN

2011-09-01T16:40:00.000-04:00

via Refinery29

My old favorite, Karen Elson (whose dark, sleepy country cd was actually good) and Raquel Zimmerman (with whom I fell deep, deeply in love with after the J+ for Uniqlo ads) killing it in black gloves and voluminous coral in a creepy traditional living room.

Gotta go against the grain and say that traditional interior designs are some of my favorite. Especially when they're moody and blue.

UPDATE: Hold that thought, and then hold the phone! There is a video version you have to see:

(spotted by Kelly of The Glamourai)

NEW MUSES: BCBG FALL AD CAMPAIGN

2011-08-31T23:05:00.000-04:00

via Refinery29

Is she the painter or the painted? Or is this the painting? So meta, BCBG, you're blowing my meta-mind.

But, honestly, you had me with the stunning color palette: hot pink, burgundy plum, chartreuse with a sheen, and dusty blue. Is that grass cloth covering the canvas in the background? Muslin? You've outdone yourselves this time, truly.

THIS IS A LIVING ROOM AFTER A HURRICANE

2011-08-30T00:25:00.005-04:00

Happy to report that there's nothing to report over here.

My living room is a little crazy because all of the outdoor inhabitants have taken refuge from the winds. Seriously, it's a jungle in here.

[Vintage button earrings (eBay); Forever 21 striped tee (thrifted); Raw silk pleated shorts (thrifted); J. Crew lace-up espadrilles (thrifted) - first seen here. My oh my, have the times changed!]

Hope you all weathered the storm bravely and without injury as well.

COME ON IN

2011-08-21T22:02:00.009-04:00

Nothing in New York is quite like anything else. Sometimes this is a good thing; sometimes it is a bad thing. And sometimes it's just sort of funny ... like how "garage" sales become "stoop" sales.

Here's one my sis and I threw together this weekend. While the foot traffic was low, the merchandising turned out unexpectedly cute. So cute, in fact, that I'm considering calling the next one a "pop-up shop." That ought to bring the shoppers out.

Spotted! Cole Mohr is Everywhere.

2011-08-16T19:54:00.004-04:00

First, I inquired about him. Then, I saw him in real life here. And now he shows up at my doorstep.

Urban Outfitters catalog, August 2011.

SWIMSUIT AND SWEATER

2011-06-01T23:18:00.004-04:00

Maybe it's because it's hot as balls out or because I live with 4 dudes (yep) or because I miss the days when clothing was optional. Either way, I think this is the best costume for today because I think this is the best costume for any day.

Teen Vogue May 2011

ULTRAVIOLET

2011-05-29T20:52:00.004-04:00

I've said it before and I'll say it again: I hate purple. This electric periwinkle, however, would add the perfect shock of color to my many wardrobe staples of navy, black, cream and blush.

J. Crew Lilibeth sandal

WEATHER SCHMEATHER

2011-05-21T06:00:00.001-04:00

This is what the weather has been like, like forever.

So I've been living in my invisible webbie-jellies, which look kind of like sartorial saran wrap.

PREGNANCY TUNICS

2011-05-18T06:00:00.001-04:00

No, there's nothing that exciting to report over here. Except that last weekend we invited some good people over for impromptu red beans and rice, a Louisiana favorite. The house specialty, however, was the creamed orange butter I whipped up. It's my secret recipe, and it is divine. We dabbed, smeared, and dolloped it on top of cornbread. I added mustard to my red beans, because that's just how I like 'em.

This vintage pregnancy lace overlay (think Betty Draper) has the best floral/rhinestone trimmed pockets. You can see some of the textural trimming taking over my arm there.

Vintage (vintage thrift) lace tunic, Mossimo black tee, Topshop bird shorts, Vince Camuto sandals

more of the lace skeleton.

FUTURE REFLECTIONS

2011-05-16T06:00:00.001-04:00

Louisiana rules. Photo via

Exactly two years ago on this day I left my Louisiana and started building a home in NYC. I say my Louisiana because I had no idea just how beloved my home state would become to me. These last two years have been rough. BEYOND ROUGH. . . I've moved three times, had three jobs, slaved at three separate internships, and have often found myself in dire need of old friends who get me. There is not a day that goes by that I don't question whether I should be here, whether I can afford to be here, whether I want to be here. Needless to say, these past 730 days - like the never ending winters - have been dark.

I still don't have all the answers to those questions, and I'm not sure I wouldn't be living in the same sort of existential mania back at home. But at least now I have a thoroughly enjoyable, career path-type job(s), a (little) cash flow, and (A LOT of ) ideas. There is a light at the end of the tunnel, and I think I'm beginning to see it. Maybe you've noticed.

So. . . I apologize for dragging you through those past two years of blogging. Documenting my struggles has been hard; being totally conscious of this struggle the whole time was even harder. I'm working on resurrecting this blog because I know it's a good place for me. It's kind of like being home . . . and that's something I desperately need.

Onward.

BOX TOPS

2011-05-10T22:35:00.005-04:00

Hmmm... this outfit is from a while ago so I can't remember exactly what I was going for, except for that I'm all about a box-y top and a girly, fitted bottom. This little cropped sweater has metallic aqua stripes running through it and appears to be vintage. The belt is leopard Saks (thrifted) and the skirt is that same Silence & Noise one I've been wearing since the beginning of time. It's that great.

I went lazy on the shoes: simple black flats. On the weekends, I'd lose the undershirt and go bare midriff.

feelin' sassy.

FRIENDS

2011-05-04T21:42:00.000-04:00

My friend Fletcher is growing up to be quite the photographer. He recently snapped this shot, which coincides with the current color palette inspiration for my room and wardrobe.

Milky taupe, periwinkle purple, soft rose, dove gray, glittering mint, and marigold + a streak of neutral navy to keep the lighter shades from flying away.

You can view all of his works (and they are amazing) here, + features below:

FAQ MAG

VICE UK

THE MET GALA #RIGHTNOW

2011-05-02T21:35:00.013-04:00

Trendspotting at New York's Met Gala: mermaid looks (Kerry Washington, Rihanna's hair) 1940s waves (Madonna, Elizabeth Banks, Diane Kruger, Tara Subkoff) , Russian royalty (Naomi Campbell, Beyonce, Daphne Guinness -or maybe it's just all McQueen?), Grecian goddesses (Blake Lively, Eva Mendes, Kristen Bell) and long sleeves (pretty much everyone). Red and black&white seem to be especially popular color choices.

Some images of the Met Gala via NYMag:

Red hot supermodels Doutzen Kroes and Giselle Bundchen competing with the red carpet (and winning).

Hot pink Calvin Klein?

The Anna Wintour

Rashida Jones is so cute, I thought she was Maggie Gyllenhaal for a second.

Naomi Watts in sheer sleeves.

Personal favorites:

Diane Kruger; just beautiful.

Zoe Saldana; whatever this sculptural double-knit fabric is that keeps popping up everywhere is full of beauty + I'm really into yellow right now.

Of course I would like the one with birds on it. (Michelle Williams)

Emma Stone, my new fashion muse. This print looks very similar to an Express skirt I have. That should be the biggest insult, but I absolutely adore this dress on Emma. Beyond gorgeous. It's perfection.

While there are some truly great looks in this group, I think my favorite might be Vera Wang.

Did you know that Vera is 61? SIXTY-ONE YEARS OLD, PEOPLE. With that hair! and that color! She looks 24! UNREAL.

A.L.T., Jennifer Lopez, and Freida Pinto get a WTF. Sorry, because I really like you all. Really, I do.

P.S. Why is Fergie wearing a wedding dress?

P.P.S. Where is January Jones?

DOUBLE YOUR COLLAR

2011-04-30T11:05:00.000-04:00

Taking a tip from Leandra at The Man Repeller --in the rush of getting ready yesterday (hey, it's been a busy week) I decided to double up on the unsexiest of elements, that is, the collar(s).

I've always been fond of distinctive neck encircle-rs, as evidenced as far back as here. This one is a 60's dress remnant, ordered from eBay, and worn backwards so that it's no longer a round mock neck, but a notched shirt collar instead.

It's actually quite detailed. At the base are silvery, long tubular beads (as in tubes, not an 80's form of awesome), covered by a thick layer of crochet lace, and then topped off by alternating rows of rhinestone and pearls. Stunning magnificence!

Laugh with me as I fall off my bed.

Allow me to show you what I'm working with.

Timex wristband and Gucci snake skin bangle. Thrifted!

vintage collar (eBay)/mossimo buttondown (thrifted)/ j+ for uniqlo cropped pants /timex watch & snakeskin bangle (thrifted)/lesportsac work tote (thrifted)

VERY VALENTINO

2011-04-27T20:13:00.006-04:00

Today's attire is inspired by Valentino's Spring 2011 RTW (a collection so good that I want the slideshow to be never ending) and a complete lack of time.

My basic approach for a 25 minute get-ready is to throw on a dress (any of them!) plus some accessories, blush, and mascara, and then it's out the door for me. Oh, and a few strokes with an eyebrow pencil for good measure. If you remember one thing, it should be this: DO NOT FORGET THE EYEBROW PENCIL.

details:

Make your frock a vintage-y keyhole-d version and your shoes the be-studded kind, and suddenly you're Valentino casual for a Wednesday at the office.

I mean, that's what I did today. What about you?

old navy dress/vince camuto sandals/revlon lilac pastelle

[disclaimer: objects in photos may appear more pissed than they actually are, promise.]

EASTER PREZZIES?

2011-04-23T00:41:00.009-04:00

I want a goose that lays golden eggs and I want it NOW.

Enter this Ellen Arthur collar necklace I spotted on Refinery29's editors' wishlist slideshow . It's like five smoky quartz goose eggs atop five little tangled chain nests.

THE TEENAGE GUIDE TO POPULARITY

2011-04-16T21:13:00.003-04:00

I'm not really one for the grunge look, but this guy in the orange pants/baggy black sweater combo has me rethinking the whole thing.

Probably because his cheekbone length hair reminds me of every middle school crush I ever had.

INSPIRATION WALL

2011-03-22T00:04:00.004-04:00

I have an inspiration wall where I post things I like. After a while, I retire the "keepers" into a sketchbook I've had for over 10 years (!). Over time it has become filled with everything from emotional journal entries and sketch paintings, to home inspirations and marketing ideas. Here's what I'm working with right now:

In there you'll find Bottega Veneta's The Birds campaign, Valentino's sheer keyhole dresses, PRADA (but of course), Dakota Fanning in a stunning nude gown, and spotted eggs (because I like their color & texture), among other little treasures.

I just like to surround myself with beauty, and live a beautiful life.

ONE IS THE LONELIEST NUMBER

2011-01-02T01:33:00.009-05:00

Charlotte Gainsbourg, via Childhood Flames, a long time ago

Why, hello hello blog friends! Back again and this time I'm armed with some New Years resolutions. It's the start of the decade so let's make them count.

(P.S. this is the longest post ever.)

ONE: No more pity parties. When you're down in the mud, it's really easy to wallow in it. I've always been one to try to change my situation for the better, so I've got that part covered. This resolution has more to do with changing the focus of my mental energy all together. Is mental energy too new age-y? (Resolution 1.1: get more new age-y in the new year.)

TWO: Less black. Or more black. I can't decide which. On the one hand, black is dull, boring, and has the possibility of sucking the life out of my pale winter skin. On the other hand, everything I try on seems to work best in the black, or nearly black, version. I'll let the mirrors decide.

THREE: Sleeping by myself. Ha, this one doesn't mean what you think it does. Since I pretty much spend the hours of noon to night on this laptoppy thingy, at bedtime I am quite prone to simply sliding it off my lap and onto the adjacent mattress space just before the drool hits the keyboard. It's probably not the safest spot for my computer, and gee, I'd really like my bed back, technology, so it's onto the wooden floor for you. Plus, you're kind of making a rectangle shape indention in the mattress and that's not cool.

And now, the party stuff. Doing anything without serious planning and commitment always turns into a cluster eff, but by the time the clock struck 2011, all was right. I toasted to my new roomies, climbed up to our still-snowy rooftop, and caught firework shows from both the ocean (?) and East River sides. Very cool.

Then it was dance party time at a few local bars. I wore a turban. Like this:

Here's the whole look, Polyvore style:
Vintage Victor Costa emerald green ballgown that I had shortened several years ago, vintage Paola Conte sequined vest, Family Dollar turban (you read that right), H&M bib necklace, and the same two rings I always wear. For my legs I had black tights and platforms, which I later swapped for flats before heading out, because at that point I just didn't care anymore. There was no real inspiration besides sequins and gems, and none of it really made any sense, but when it came together it seemed to work.

Two hats are better than one.

What about you? Any New Years/New Decade resolutions?
Blogging more is essential.

BACK FROM THE MOVING DEAD

2010-12-16T00:38:00.007-05:00

Oh! So many things to note this week. One: I'm back from moving (and being sick at the same time, uggggh) and am slowly settling into my new place. Here are the first shots from my partially renovated room. I can't wait to show you the before and afters once it's all done.

Two: I absolutely love love love my new wall color in the morning- a beautiful icy taupe gray that I intended- but by nightfall it turns plum purple. Truth be told, I HATE PURPLE. I mean, I even hate people who like purple. (I know, I'm terrible.) So I think I'm going to re-paint, which is only going to be 30x more difficult with all these unpacked boxes in my room.

Oh wells, my winter arms could use the workout.

Speaking of winter, it got cold. REAL COLD. I literally screamed when the weatherDOTcom graphic read "feels like 8." Are you serious, Wendy?

I didn't know wearing two sweaters was possible, but there ya go.

On a third note, I had a terribly miserable first winter last year and am determined to do it better this go around. New coat, new boots and new sweaters have definitely improved my outlook. Resisting the urge to put on my puffer ~~blanket~~ ~~snuggie~~ coat as long as humanly possible.

Four: Black Swan. Don't even think about it, just get thee to a movie theater.

Target gray long sleeve | Thrifted NY&Co mustard sweater cardi | Thrifted vintage black floral pin (on cardi) | Thrifted Banana Republic stripe cashmere sweater | Zara plaid coat | Thrifted AKA hot pink scarf | Zara highwaisted denim | Chelsea Crew sherpa boots

CELESTIAL SEASONINGS

2010-12-01T21:42:00.003-05:00

It's going to be nothing but witch wear from here on out. I really have just collected so many pieces in so little time! Cue my black cape, oversized spider pin, cat tapestry bag, stripey socks, star skirt... Right now it's star shirt time.
This is the house I cat sit at. You know, change of sceneries. Thought it would be fun for the blog.

Not the highest quality images, I fear, (uh, that's my Tory Burch reusable tote making a cameo in the lower right) but I'm moving this weekend so have patience! I'll be disappearing for a quick minute.

But I'll be back!

F21 silk star blouse|Zara highwaist jeans|Natural Comfort platforms|Vintage rings (VTS)

THIS SKIRT LITERALLY CAUGHT ON FIRE*

2010-11-25T12:18:00.013-05:00

Oh yes, a second Thanksgiving celebrated in NYC. Since living here has more than its share of ups and downs, I thought I'd compile a list of all the particularly NY things I'm thankful for.

Picking my produce up on the daily. Street side vendors make this super convenient, affordable, and always fresh.

The subway. It's a love/loathe situation, but sometimes it's great to be able to completely zone out on the morning commute or late night bender. No longer worrying about a DD!

My sister. As much as we fight, I don't think I would have made it as long here trying to "follow my dream" or whatever it is I'm doing. She's an amazing support system. (These are our matching holiday feet).

Vegan/vegetarian restaurants & menus. Whether it's a chain restaurant or locally owned cafe, there are plenty of options, and they are almost always marked on the menu. I forget how "troublesome" vegetarian eating is back home (and the attitudes of the people there don't help).

Holiday windows. Fantastic displays of imagination. I'm especially excited about seeing the Bergdorf's ones IRL. I think I like the sparkly sailor best.

These pictures were taken in the new home I'm moving into. (I told you I have lots of news!) I say home because it's a three-story brownstone, 5 bedrooms, 1 full bath and two half baths. It's a beautiful Victorian fixer-upper (as you can tell by the stairs). I cannot wait to get started.

Vintage gingham button down (thrifted)/Vintage 50s beaded cardigan (VTS)/Urban Outfitters party skirt/Zara belt/Gap sparkle knee socks (scrunched down)/Antonio Melani studded t-straps (Dillards)

*It's okay now.

HARRY POTTER HOMAGE

2010-11-24T00:54:00.009-05:00

Hey, I'm back and WOW has it been an eventful two months! I have sooooo much to share with you, buttttt, as of yet not everything is pinned down, so I'm keeping mum. All in due time, my friends!

Lately I've been acquiring more and more of a witchy wardrobe. All it requires is darkly school girl items, which I've always been drawn towards. True story--I'm not allowed to have a library card because I owe $65 worth of "witchy" "supernatural" books checked out in second grade. The second grade!

Don't throw books at me for this, but I don't keep up with all the Harry Potter jazz. I mean, I've read book one and possibly seen 2 of the first 3 movies. I'm hoping to catch up on all of them this winter. The movies, that is; reading the books would be wishful thinking.

Which is your favorite one? I can tell you right now that Hermione is my fave character. I love a little snot-noser.

Vintage top & scarf/Evie black cardigan/Topshop black crow shorts/ Target tights

What do you do when a bear rolls up on you?

2010-10-04T00:09:00.001-04:00

Sooooo... we went camping in the Catskills for my birthday last weekend. Not a very fashion-y thing to do, but I LOVE NATURE. I am a total nature girl; when I get in it, I JUST HAVE TO RUN.

I don't understand it, but even a trip back from the restroom (this is luxury camping y'all, none of that wild Louisiana stuff) necessitates a run. Everyone was like, "Why is she running?!?!"
Planning the trip was a total pain. This isn't the pick-up-and-go trip that I'm used to. No, you need reservations (for a spot in the woods--are they serious??), a car, and to buy a sleeping bag because no one wastes space having one of those just lying around.

BUT DON'T GET ME WRONG, IT WAS ALL TOTALLY WORTH IT. We roasted marshmallows, turned them into s'mores, and nearly fell asleep on the ground near the fire, untented. One of the best birthdays in recent years, to be sure.

After camping, we took the opportunity for a tiny detour through Woodstock, NY. We stopped at a charming yard sale, a unique and tempting art gallery (their words), and THE WORLD'S LARGEST KALEIDOSCOPE. And look at these pumpkins!
I'm kind of ready for fall.

I had this great fashion-y camping outfit planned that involved a turban, a plaid flannel, and some sensible layering. As it turns out, it wasn't that chilly, so I ended up in a white F21 t-shirt, black legging pants, Aerie sample coziest knit cardigan and gladiators.
(I pretty much stole all of these pictures from my roommate and NYBF's blog. Check her out, she's pretty good.)

Ding Dong, Balmainia's Dead

2010-10-01T22:10:00.015-04:00

I'm not one to be a negative Nancy, but I do think there is some room for informed critique on this blog. Like many an editor at the recent Balmain show, I was completely...underwhelmed.

True, I was never personally a fan of the sharp, crystallized shoulders of yesteryear, but at least I could appreciate the great tailoring and workmanship walking down a runway (or on Beyonce). Decarnin's offering for SS11, on the other hand, seems completely devoid of inspiration. It goes punk, but only weakly so.

Lackluster leathers top the blandest of denim, resulting in some sort of mediocre mom's idea of staying "cool". The makeup is naked and forgetable, the hair barely tousled, the safety pins cliche. It's punk tempered through a mass-market lens, and it's not good.

I'd like to think this is part of some grander statement about fast fashion or fashion in general, but given head designer Christopher Decarnin's penchant for the style, it's not likely. Or maybe all the flack is simply the reflection of fashion's fickle taste and timely turn away from worn out trends. Either way you slice it (or in this case, shred it), Decarnin fails to maintain relevance.

What would have been nice (and much more luxe!) are unique cuts, perforations or slices to the obviously supple leathers. Instead of here-a-pin-there-a-pin placements, the safety accoutrements could have been used to create interesting tensions along the fabric. Or what about beaded or studded pins arranged to create Chuck Close-like images? As for the jeans, I'm not sure if anything could save them.

In sum, I cannot believe these things are on a runway looking like a Rave store. In Paris, no less!

Martha, Martha, Martha!

2010-09-28T00:25:00.002-04:00

I forgot that last week I attended a live taping of the Martha Stewart show. My store was invited to go because it was a special episode all about consignment shopping, thrifting and vintage.

The set was even more beautiful in person, Martha was charming (and soooo dead-on when taping her promotional materials), and OMG…..one of the special guests was Iris Apfel!

Iris brought several of her own pieces that she styled on the mannequins. The jewelry was in.sane. She talked about staying the same size your whole life so you can collect amazing pieces and the fact that she was wearing 25lbs of accessories. I’m not sure how much of a joke that is.

Also on the show were model and avid vintage collector Tatiana Sorokko, along with designer Ralph Rucci. They brought a few of the best pieces from her clothing exhibit at the Phoenix Art Museum, going on now through January 2. The piece de resistance was this gorgeous hand painted Ralph Rucci dress. It recieved a lot of ooohs and aaaahs. Up close, it was pretty amazing.

I wore a smattering of vintage and secondhand goods. Everything I’m wearing is thrifted or secondhand (excluding the tights…gross!). I guess they liked my look because they sat me in the second row next to the live (and on-camera) Martha tweeters. Prime seats!

I call this shirt my haunted house shirt because of the print. It’s Miu Miu meets the creepy time traveler old lady’s house in Donnie Darko. Plus, it kind of goes along with Tavi’s whole teen witch vibe, although admittedly, it’s more 70s Halloween than 90s laissez-faire . I think she could get down with that.

F21 leopard jacket, 60s red flower pin, antique style citron ring and rhinestone ring (Vintage Thrift store); Haunted House shirt (Beacon’s Closet); Wool High Waisted Shorts (Salvation Army); Natural Comfort platforms (The Dressing Room); Sarah Coventry gold heart necklace (St. Vincent de Paul Thrift);

I don't have to be anything!

2010-09-24T00:26:00.008-04:00

I had to do it. I had to go private and disappear for a while. Sorry, folks.

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I recently gained insight into why I’ve been hating on this blog. The main reason is because I felt that it turned into something that wasn’t me. It seems so obvious now, but for the past year or so, I’ve been a blogging funk. A lot of that had to do with my move to NYC, being surrounded by wildly successful people, people who came here because they wanted things just like I did. And their dreams seemed to be coming true, almost effortlessly, while I interned and slaved away for the most meager of perks. What exactly was I doing wrong?

I became so concerned about what my blog should be and how it could lead to future jobs (which are so scarce right now) that I lost track of what I loved about it in the first place. I studied blogs as a product; I attended conferences, I collected advice and I doled it out just as easily. As it turns out, the very thought of monetizing and capitalizing on what is essentially me, my own self, my blog, was enough to ruin whatever (non-monetary) value it once had.

I thought about giving it up. I thought about it a LOT. I toyed with the idea of getting a new name and moving to WordPress (turns out I’m too uncreative to come up with another suitable name). All the while I was worried that abandoning this blog would cost me my small, but awesome group of followers. Even more grotesquely I thought, “I need to keep this up so I can put it on my resume.” And that's when I realized that that was the whole problem.

In the end, it all came back to the pressure to do something with my blog and turning that success into being something in real life. If there's anything that gypsy craft night reminded me of, it's that I don’t have to be anything!

I’m good enough, right now, just as I am.

After mulling over the options for the past few weeks, I've decided to stick with it. Mostly because I couldn't settle on a name I liked, but also because I don't think it's necessary to throw the baby out with the bath water (and this is definitely my baby!). I don't need a new blog; I just need a new perspective.

So, I’m releasing the pressure to live up to the glory days of AGD, whenever that was. The truth is that it’s only become a hindrance to all the growth I should be welcoming in my life. New York City moves fast, and I've got to move with it.

Let’s try this again.

CATURDAY THE 28TH

2010-08-30T21:01:00.007-04:00

This weekend was ~~awesomesauce~~ ~~applesauce~~ full of brownies and win. Alexandra and I made like gypsies at the Family Dollar ~~school supplies~~ craft aisle.

(There are no Hobby Lobbys in NY!)

We laid everything out on F$'s floor, divided it up, and then added some balloons, a birthday banner, and crystal growing kit for good measure.
Back at home, we rearranged all the lamps in the house so we could have cozy light instead of unpleasant overheads. Then we blew up the balloons (except red), hit the framboise and made Betty Crocker brownies for the most decadent unbirthday night ever.

And look what we made! (This one is Alex's.)
(do what you wanna)

Following the instructions of Miranda July's Learning to Love You More project, we started with what seemed like an easy one. Appropriate, too, because this relentless job-search, job-advice, network-building stuff has me hating it all.

So, you know what?
I don't have to be anything.

MIU MIU RESORT '11

2010-08-24T02:49:00.004-04:00

Harajuku 70s tramp. I loooove the idea, but maybe not all at once?
Photo: Style.com

STUDDED MARY JANE SIX INCH WEDGES

2010-08-10T09:49:00.011-04:00

Let's just take a moment to admire the stunning beauty of this shoe, because I'll never be able to walk more than two steps in them.

One of the great details on these is the stripey faux bois-ish black and brown wedge heel, which you can see much better in person.

Whyyyyy do they have to be so impossibly tall??
Shoes & pics from Aldo

ALL BUTTONED UP

2010-08-07T14:57:00.011-04:00

Ohhhh, that breeze is making me dream of fall. And with the cool wind comes the need for a new jacket....new boots... a new bag...new socks... and new sleepy shorts...(or is that just the retail push I'm feeling? Consumerism can be such an ice queen). Either way, let's talk fall wardrobe wish lists.

First up, a top that's buttoned from the bottom up. Whether it's a sleeveless summer camp style (a la YSL), a crisp white school marm cut (as in Cacharel), or a double-knit ingenue version (hello Miu Miu my dear friend!), I'm all about a top that gives good collar. Prim, it is; boring, it is not.

A few of my favorite neck decorators:

YSL, Marni, Marc Jacobs, Cacharel, Marc Jacobs, Miu Miu, Miu
all via Style.com

DOING MY BEST JOAN (SANS CURVES)

2010-07-25T13:42:00.002-04:00

Playing dress up in my newly acquired 60s hot pink polka dot wiggle dress (fits like a glove!), because I'm soooo excited about the premiere of Mad Men tonight. Luckily, I'm house cat sitting at a place with cable TV, so I'll actually be able to see it.

That little one-eyed cutie is Charles. (No, he's not winking.) I'm not a cat person, but this guy is so sweet.

90S REMIX

2010-07-10T16:41:00.009-04:00

I don't loooooove the whole new 90s thing, but while we're on it, I present to you the original Feist: Frente!

I have to admit that I always thought this song was by Juliana Hatfield. Whoops, stupid brain. Anyway, enjoy it & lemme know what you think.

DON, THAT CRAZY FOOL

2010-07-02T00:00:00.010-04:00

You probably couldn't tell because of the inherent deceptive-ness of scheduled posts, but I ran out of town for a minute for a family emergency (don't worry, everyone is fine). Before all that hullabaloo went down, I traipsed over to a friend's going away party. Good ole Matt is heading back to our mutual alma mater, Tulane, though I didn't know him then.

I managed to score a stuffed dancing goose sculpture, avoided getting iced, traveled in a pack of feather-wearing friends, and received a very appropriate magic marker tattoo down my right arm.

Everyone seemed to really like this outfit for whatever reason. If I'm going to do the 90s thing that's been (re)circulating, well, I'm going to do it my way--with hot pink J Crew socks.

Thrifted Angie Dress, Vintage Slip, J Crew hot pink socks, Natural Comfort platforms, Free People bag

PRAISE VOGUE

2010-06-24T11:36:00.007-04:00

In July's issue, American Vogue asks if they can get "an Amen up in here?" From the depths of my fashion soul sings a resounding YES. You see, Vogue is celebrating the return of the woman-- of waists and boobs, of tailoring and tights, of kitten heels and graceful gestures (Think Prada). Bye bye oversized, shredded don't-give-a-fuck, pour-yourself-into, liquid-sexpot-latex-and/or-leather-leggings and geometric skyscrapers more commonly known as "shoes." Nope, I've never been a huge fan of the downtown, model off-duty look.

Not sure if I need to be strutting around in nude pantyhose just yet, but there's something about elegance and poise that's utterly refreshing. I'm drawn to the idea of dressing up (Everyday! How did we get so casual in the first place?? People wear pajamas outside of the house--seriously?), hair that's set once or twice a week, and always knowing exactly what to say (Hello, Oprah!). I'm seriously ready to crack an etiquette book.

Editor Sally Singer sums it up, "The point is that right now, the look that has been doing the rounds for what feels like, oh , forever is suddenly tired, tired, tired. The biker jacket with one too many zippers. The slouchy distressed tees that now only cause frayed nerves. The heavy buckled platform ankle boots that are a dead weight. And the leggings! The leggings, in leather or nylon or gleaming PVC; time for them to walk to the back of the closet. Girls who once dressed for their inner rocker don't want to hum that tune anymore."

Yep, we've got a new song to sing; its highlights can be found in Vogue's Met gala round-up (be sure to check out Doutzen Kroes glorious powder blue tulle confection), the classic 1950s housewife melodrama in which Natalia Vodianova must choose between happiness with her rebel boy toy or a marriage with the secure Ewan McGregor (a bit trite, but it works), and Sally Singer’s foray into carefully coifed up-dos. Each feature made for a spectacularly cohesive issue, one that truly inspired my barely beating fashion heart.

Well done, Vogue, well done.

Marion Cotillard photos via Just Jared

JACK & KAREN

2010-06-17T09:45:00.002-04:00

Um, whyyyyy are we not talking about this? I mean, it's from the June issue of American Vogue and I'm just now getting around to posting it, but that probably has a lot to do with how distracting Blake Lively's boobs are (srsly, skip pages 122-135).

Apparently, it's the first time the couple is appearing in a shoot together (photographed by Annie Leibowitz). And apparently, Karen has a new band with a new album. And apparently, Jack is super proud of her. And obviouslyyy, Jack White and Karen Elson are the coolest. couple. ever. (and I don't use the three period. format. lightly.)

Vogue describes the new album as "spooky alt-country" that's "creepy gorgeous," while Marie Claire coins it as "countrypolitan" and "smoky blues."

Either way, I'm listening. Because if there's one thing I like, it's creepy romantic ghost lullabies.

A Little Wake-up for the Face

2010-06-14T22:14:00.010-04:00

Trying out red lipstick

Sephora Lip Liner in Real Red//Sephora Lipstick in It Girl

Eleven Heavy Things: Inspired by Prada's Chandeliers

2010-06-13T00:01:00.008-04:00

My sister took a minute to coax me out of my nap and into heading in to the city for an impromptu photoshoot.

I have to admit, it was pretty fun being un petit fleur.

And! we came upon these Miranda July props. I love Miranda July because I feel like her work actually succeeds at blurring and exploring the space between artist, viewer, environment, and strangers. There is a communion between the four that's totally interactive and available to be changed and created. I love that.

We ended the night with scratch-offs. Neither of us won.

Vintage Crystal Chandelier Dress/90s The Limited Black Slip Dress/Random Black Grosgrain Ribbon/Some Pins You Can't See (one from New Loot)/Rhinestone Ring/Whatever Black Tights/Tommy Hilfiger(!) Navy Patent Platforms

New Loot

2010-06-08T23:42:00.004-04:00

One of the best things about my job is the amazing employee discount. Last week I picked up these bits and baubles (3 pins, two rings) almost immediately upon walking in (I love when the jewelry gets restocked!). Plus, I scored the Vena Cava for Gap khaki dress (out last summer) that I've had my eye on. And did I even mention this clutch? Metal and basketweave is my new jam. So chic.

It's ridiculous how many times I've worn these items in the past few days. They seem to bring everything together. I guess that's what accessories are supposed to do.

Which means I'll be updating with outfit posts!

Free Yeasayer

2010-06-07T12:13:00.007-04:00

Saturday was the grand opening of summer shows being played on Governors Island. Getting to the show was a logistical nightmare (by ferry, only, that started running at 6pm for an 8pm show). FreeWilliamsburg pretty much nailed the vibe, although they failed to mention that the food line was about 10x longer than beer line at all times (WHAT?). We waited an hour for the shitty sausage sandwiches they mention.

But I'm not complaining. I loved the show, the ferry ride, the sand!

Comfort is key, so I'm wearing my H&M organic white tee knotted at the hip (easily my favorite shirt), American Eagle denim shorts, Vintage straw/metal convertible clutch (more on that later), and white "keds." Pretty much the perfect summer jams outfit.

And as for summer jams, Yeasayer fans keep clicking:

Summertime Clothes

2010-05-28T23:53:00.005-04:00

I didn't think this is how I would make my mark in magazines, but here ya go:

TIME OUT NEW YORK SEXY SUMMER SINGLE!!!

WATOOSI

2010-05-24T23:25:00.004-04:00

Last week, Alexandra, Deezer and I headed out to Soul Clap at Glasslands, which is all about dance-a-thons and James Brown. We danced our little butts off, splurged for a car service, and returned back to the diva lair (the newly dubbed name for our apartment) sweaty and happy.

I went straight Brooklyn style: striped tee, denim vest, black mini, black booties.

//Mossimo Striped Tee//Thrifted 90s Gap Denim Vest//Thrifted Black Old Navy mini//Ebay Nine West Jazz booties//Thrifted Vintage Perforated White Clutch//

The Glam(ourai) Band(ourai)

2010-05-20T19:19:00.004-04:00

The Glamourai double dog dared us to don double dots, so I did (OMG).

I love a good fashion challenge. No better way to shake things up closet-wise. Thanks for the constant inspiration Kelly!

Navy American Eagle Dress (underneath)//Thrifted High-waisted Skirt (on top)//Vintage Belt from Vintage Thift//American Eagle Bauble Charm bracelet//Thrifted J Crew Ballerina Espadrilles (one of my favorites!)

Fashion Family

2010-05-19T16:00:00.004-04:00

Speaking of moms and Mother's Day and all that, I was just wondering if any of your moms were your fashion inspiration? My mom isn't so much now (trust me, I try desperately to remedy this), though she did kind of have it going on back in the day. She rocked that light blue eyeshadow hard, which I think is the modern day equivalent of Jersey shore sharkskin. Unfortunately, I don't have any pics with me in NY.

What I do have, however, is this amazing photo of my grandparents from the 70s. They're so perfectly nerd chic that I die with tater tots in my pocket. I mean, not even Weezer can pull this off so well.

I can't help but think that if I saw these kids in Williamsburg, I'd want to hang with them.

The White Elephant in the Room*

2010-05-12T22:45:00.009-04:00

Normally I'm a hater when it comes to Urban Outfitters (try being a cashier at their flagship store), but their style icon moms contest was totally brilliant (toast brillz, if you roll like that). I plan on copying this look, head to toe, as soon as it's not scarf and coat weather in New York (WTH THIS IS MAY).

I'm obsessed with 70s looks right now, so I'm all about these real deal inspirations. Click the pic for all the hot mamas, literally.

*So I haven't blogged in a month. Let's pretend it never not happened and hope it never not happens again.

BAZAAR DAYS

2010-04-12T22:11:00.005-04:00

So I was cruising the party pics of New York Social Diary and what do I see but my former boss from Harper's Bazaar, Nicole Fritton, pictured on the left. In the center is Anamaria Wilson, also from Bazaar, who, in my opinion, had the best office style.

So Nicole is actually the big, big boss--the market/fashion director. Pretty awesome that I shared an office space with her for 4 months.
She looks amazing, so I just had to post.

LAZY SATURDAY.

2010-04-10T23:38:00.007-04:00

After moving and vacay-ing and a brief sickness in the space of 2 weeks, I felt pretty damn well entitled to a 12 hours-night's sleep and not getting up until noon today. And then I got all 60s gumshoe glam in my new (secondhand) leopard swing coat and headed to the Family Dollar (twice, actually) for some iced tea, lightbulbs (CFLs), and organizational tools (desperately needed).

Then I took an hour or so break from unpacking my house (stilllll not done) (art still on floor) (#whoops) to sit in the sun and read some of my book--currently Ishmael, one of those books that changes your life. It's OK, but as an aging philosophy phenom, the ideas aren't so mind-blowing. But if you are young and fresh, I very much recommend it.
Anyway, I was having a (philosophical) moment in the park, as I am prone to do these days, when a tiny 8 year old (and I'm guesstimating here) excused herself to ask me if I'd like a flower. How sweet! And then she handed me this lovely single pink coral tulip. And all was right in the world and nothing was wrong.

In this very congested, non-gardeny area of Brooklyn where I now reside, I can only imagine where she plucked it from.

1. Secondhand F21 Leopard Swing Coat, $6.25, Employee Discount @ Work
2. F21 Denim Legging-ish Jeans, $12.50, Forever 21
3. Turquoise Huarache Flats, $29.50, American Eagle

I LEFT MY BLOG IN THE DUST

2010-04-06T22:51:00.017-04:00

and headed for the sunnier skies of my hometown, Baton Rouge. After months of frigid winter temps, running around footloose and fancy free felt oh so right.

First up, a crawfish boil that extended long into the night:

The spiciest artichokes ever.

So you dump a batch of boiled crawfish and veggies onto the newspaper and then eat the heck out of them. Nothing better than good friends and good food.

Hiking in Tunica, MS:

It's either TOMS or no shoes at all in these parts. Yep--I hiked all day, barefoot.

The first of several waterfalls. Unfortunately, I sort of stopped taking pictures at this point and focused on how amazing the scenery was.

My friend Paul took this one.

My favorite part of the trip was a 2 hour bike ride just before my flight back to NYC. I could have ridden all day! I mean, I really really wanted to.

Wisteria everywhere, smells amaaaaazing.

The Mighty Mississippi

Getting misted at the golf course.

I can't believe this is someone's front yard.

Cypress "knees"

Wild wisteria taking over even wilder azalea bushes.

Quaint tree-lined lanes.

Maybe I'm biased, but the fabulousness of New York doesn't have anything on this. Four days were not enough to take in all this loveliness.

I'll get back to fashion soon enough.
xx

SADDLE SHOES AND DESPERATION

2010-03-15T15:13:00.007-04:00

Let me summarize this weekend for you:

I can't stand the rain. Oh it is miserably rainy here in NYC during this very busy week of mine-- priming and painting my new place in BushWACK Brooklyn, packing and moving to said new place, and getting ready for my immediate post-moving departure for a Big Louisiana Vacay where I will get to see my friends, family, and hot sunshine that I miss so dearly (it's been 8 months and my how I have grown!).

Oh and in my free time I do this thing where they pay me money to sell and clean and know about vintage things. It's sort of like a full time job but not nearly as awful because we have a nosh box filled with Reese's and Rolos.

So yeah, I've basically been wearing a duffel coat with a red 3/4 sleeve raincoat on top and getting sopping wet anyway. I did attempt to wear this out the other night. Well, I did wear it, but my attempt at meeting up with some friends didn't work out so well. I'm too tired and wet to have friends right now.

STREET ETIQUETTE

2010-03-10T23:02:00.009-05:00

I don't normally do this, in fact, I've only done it once before, but here goes.
PEEP THIS BLOG.

It is amazing.
The last time I promoted another blog was for Style Rookie --wayyyyyyy back before Tavi was Tavi or Thomas or a RiotGrrl or The Tavi With A Dior Mylar Bow Hat causing some sort of Twitter Frenzy and BLOGGER VS EDITOR WAR-- so maybe I have a knack for this sort of thing?

I don't think I'm being bold when I say that Street Etiquette is a style revolution on par with The Sartorialist. These two get it perfectly right, every time, and I love the addition of historical context (nerd, nerd, nerd). Plus, there is nothing sexier than a man with style and brains.
Unh unh.

DON'T YOU WANNA JUMP AROUND AND BE AS DARLING AS LOU?

2010-03-05T20:09:00.000-05:00

I'm a firm believer that the French have the best style, the best music and the best philosophy. It's all about the Joie de Vivre.

Reposting from THE UPPER CRUST.

YOU ARE CORDIALLY INVITED....

2010-03-03T18:00:00.000-05:00

to Blog Birthday #2! I am not exactly sure where or when that will occur, but you can bet your bottom dollar that Fernando will be there.

I honestly can't believe it. Two years ago, I was sitting on the wooden floors of my large two-story townhouse in Baton Rouge Louisiana, yes LOUISIANA, scribbling out some disorganized thoughts (which later in the evening became blog post numero uno, denim on denim whaaa whaaa), made even more disorganized by my scrawling handwriting and inability to properly map out spacing on paper (not an atypical occurrence)....... and now here I am blogging in NEW YORK em-effin CITY, sitting in a tiny, albeit cozy, apartment, having dipped my toes into the fashion scene at Harper's Bazaar and Three Fleur de Lys (plus offering some minor assistance in styling gigs), enjoying the glittery snowstorms but still searching for sunshine, planning a vintage cocktail dress and bridal sale event, and generally trying to catch a break.

When all is said and done, however, I am kind of living the dream.

Thank you.

images via weheartit

QUICK OUTFIT POST

2010-03-01T16:51:00.019-05:00

I am alive and fairly well after overcoming a sore throat that felt like fire. Neither sickness nor snow will stop me from taking in this rare and beautiful spring weather.

I'm practically breaking out the shorts and sandals, even if there is still snow on the ground. Look at me in short sleeves!
Not.Even.Cold.

There is this strange phenomenon here, particularly in Williamsburg, where people just shove hangers into fences and sell all manner of clothing on the corner. My sister bought the sweater from one of these people, and then I added my 1990s floral Cynthia Rowley dress, braided belt, and of course, snow boots. More of a necessity than a style choice.

And the work week begins...

1. Mint Scarf, $2, Thrifted.
2. 90s Cynthia Rowley Floral Dress, $5, Thrifted.
3. Moth Patterned Robe Sweater, $7, Street Vendor.
4. Tan Braided Leather Belt, $2, thrifted
5. J Crew Dog Printed Snow Boots, $8.50, work discount.

RISTO

2010-02-26T10:40:00.001-05:00

My sister snapped this photo at the Risto Fall 2010 show last week. Though I had never heard of the label, I was instantly attracted to the name, which means somebody must have really good branding skills.

The make-up was gorgeous, and I want this hair color, stat!

When I am heading down to beach this summer, I desire nothing more than to be wearing billowy maxi skirts paired with crew necks and statement jewels. Paperbag-ish high waists, horizontal stripes, and long wavy salt water hair are welcome, too.
Bangles, not so much.

Any idea where to get a skirt like that?

I'M A BARBIE GIRL IN A BARBIE WORLD

2010-02-25T00:27:00.000-05:00

Just the other day I was saying how much I loved old school Barbie's zigzag one piece, and how I would totally wear it if they made it today.

And then

Urban Outfitters has one.

So cute, right?

images via google, urbn.com

NYFW & IFB CON, or WHAT BLOGGING MEANS TO ME

2010-02-20T00:50:00.016-05:00

Whenever FW rolls around, I find myself reflecting upon the nature of fashion, the industry as a whole, and my role in it (or lack thereof). This season was no different. Rather than fashionably skulking around the Tents or rushing to try to catch someone's last minute Reject Show, I focused all of my enthusiasm upon the Independent Fashion Bloggers conference, Evolving Influence, organized by Jennine Tamm Jacob of none other than IFB. You'll remember that I have already hinted at how awesome it was!

We discussed ethics in blogging and journalism and the FTC and how magazines tend not to look the gift horse in the mouth (what does that phrase meeeeeeean?), and we all turn a blind eye to the general shmooziness of the fashion, marketing, PR, and publishing industries, and yet bloggers! the poor-recently-un-disenfranchised-commoners! are now held to stricter rules than Her Highness Wintour. And this was all very interesting to work out and discuss on stage, because, as you may know, I studied philosophy, and Ethics is but one branch of the former.

My plan is to tell you my blogging revelations interjected with photos of fashion blog celebrities, because I am hoping that their awesomeness will bleed from their likenesses into my words, or that they will hold your attention a few seconds longer while I wax poetic on the grand pseudo-modernist topic of:

BLOGGING.

(tutti cutie)

Perhaps it was the light-hearted convos of the Famous Ones or the general sense of merriment and community found in the auditorium populated by those who identify as both Fashion and Blog ... or the fact that, coincidentally, I happened to watch Julie & Julia that night (and loved! Meryl Streep is marvelous)...well, anyway...I found a new respect and confidence in my blog and myself.

Through her year long Julia Child Recipe Project, Julie of Julie & Julia keeps a cooking/blogging routine wherein she nearly loses her darling husband, but also discovers herself, as writer and not mere Government Worker, and basically comes back to the things she's always known, her true self, through...blogging! At least that's the way I see it.

I've often fallen back upon the motto "to never betray the way you've always known it is" (The Shins, anyone? Remember Zach Braff and Natalie Portman and pet graves?). The things I like about blogging are that (1) I have this sort of routine way to conceptualize and narrate my life stories, that (2) there is therapeutic relief in writing and sharing my thoughts, whereby I rid myself of obsessing over old thoughts, make room for new and awesome thoughts and thus, move forward in heart and mind and that (3) both (1) and (2) allow me to keep moving on the Path of Myself, working towards positive goals, while maintaining inner "centeredness," if that makes any sense. Curiously, the fashion bit is just the manifested outward expression of this.

And so I am energized and inspired to keep doing this thing because it, um, helps me realize my true self? And I believe that being who you are is the best way to happiness and success? And that even the Famous Ones chalked their notoriety up to being themselves honestly and openly? And most importantly, because, like Julie, I take joy in this thing, in you and in me, this anomaly of space-time where we meet a couple of times a week, this thing called my blog, from whither we can:

REJOICE
and
THRIVE
together on the paths of ourselves,
which can only lead to continued happiness and success.

So, in the name of fashion and blogging and the hearts of ghosts, rejoice!

(In a serendipitous moment, I caught the Reluctant Celebrity prancing elf-like into a waiting Black Car. And she-of-the-printed-capri-pant-and-matronly-clog-and-jeweled-barrette, who, I surmise, is her Mom, is so adorable, so Norwegian, and so Mom.)

Did any of that make sense?

NECKLACEDRESS

2010-02-18T11:11:00.000-05:00

It's funny how the Evolution of an Outfit proceeds each morning during the Dressing Hours. Due to constraints both environmental (snow pavement!) and practical (comfort! always!), my ensemble transformed from Miu Miu Ingenue to 70s School Marm and then landed on Prairie Goth. A quick accessories change was all that was required.

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Not sure if it's my favorite look, but I wore the final one to the IFB Evolving Influence conference, which was totally amazing. I can't wait to tell you all about it!

1. Vintage Wallpaper Dress, $19, Beacon's Closet
2. Natural Comfort Platforms (secondhand), $20, The Dressing Room
3. Echo Scarf (tied at waist, nearly impossible to see), $2, Thrifted
4. Taryn Rose Loafer Heels, $15, East Village Thrift Store
5. Vintage Mustard Headband, $Free, Work
6. Stripey Socks, $ IDK, Walmart (a LONG time ago)
7. Nine West Jazz Booties, $13.50, eBay

CONFESSION

2010-02-14T12:30:00.001-05:00

I secretly love Valentine's Day,
though I rarely have a valentine!

Have a happy one, loves.

images via weheartit, style

16 YEARS OF MY LIFE I GAVE

2010-02-12T10:48:00.004-05:00

Last spring it was the Chloe knock-off triple buckle mary-janes that I obsessed over (and eventually obtained). This season, it's studded, non-pointytoed cowboy ankle boots. Now I know that the words studded, cowboy, or boots do not often enter my wardrobe vocab, but these, these, have won me over. The shape of them is so perfect for denim shorts and my chicken legs or short prairie-esque frocks . The bad news? They are $200, and that is so not a part of my available cash flow. Yuck.
You know what that means?

EBAY.

In order to get those boots on my feet and keep some food on the table (just kidding, I live in NYC; I don't have a table), I am auctioning off a few of my designer and vintage treasures. If you are a size 8.5-9, then you are in luck--I have several great pairs of shoes up (90s sneaker wedges, J Vincent quilted black flats, vintage riding boots, and jade leather oxfords!), as well as a vintage Gucci monogram bag, a Dooney & Bourke hearts bag (immaculately clean), and a Michael Kors leather and gold chain watch.

Errrytime I come round yo city Bling Bling.
I mean, that's what I'll be like when/if I get those studded boots.

I love this song. Seriously.

Weezy and Dave Dudley in one post. I know, it's kind of amazing.

SHOCK OF ALL SHOCKS

2010-02-11T22:33:00.005-05:00

I think we all feel a little less magical today.
A brilliant talent and creative tailor--
Alexander McQueen,
may you rest peacefully.

Photos via Style.com

YA BETTA BELIEVE DAT

2010-02-09T22:34:00.013-05:00

WHO DAT WHO DAT WHO DAT SAY DEY GONNA BEAT DEM SAINTS?

Ok so that was basically the best Super Bowl ever, and not just because it's the only one I've ever watched. Wearing the black & gold for my home away from home:

After the win, we obviously had to take the party to the next level. Literally. We all climbed into Ben's loft, now dubbed the "party bed". Lots of cheers and hi-fives and cuddling accompanied by simultaneous views of the Manhattan and downtown Brooklyn skylines, because party bed rolls like that.

Photo by the Lovely Emley and Her Hanging Camera
Hope you had an exciting weekend, too!

1. Unbranded Black Knit Cardi, $18.00, Beacon's Closet.
2. Kenar Black Top, $10.00. TJMaxx
3. Destroyed Denim Shorts, $39.50, American Eagle
4. Nine West Jazz Booties, $13.50, eBay

SAINTS SAINTS SAINTS DUH

2010-02-07T13:48:00.003-05:00

I don't really care about football but I gotta say
WHO DAT

embedding disabled, click click, click:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ugV6gcXGPwk

Having a Super Bowl party with red beans & rice, jambalaya, king cake, and Abita beer cause we miss the dirty South.

IT'S THREE-SHIRTS COLD

2010-02-05T04:00:00.004-05:00

I dig this outfit because it has a lot of my favorite wardrobe themes running through it--quirky menswear stripey sailor girl.

The RayBans give it just a touch of that 60s beatnik feel I've been into lately.

I have a scarf, the scarf, in my hair. You can just barely see it here.

And these shoes! So darling, I hardly ever wear them, and I have no idea why not. I am an idiot.

I bought them for a steal ($16) maybe a year ago from somewhere totally not fashion savvy; I think it was Sears.

So excited for the weekend. Making 2 more king cakes, reading multiple novels, catching some UV light (it comes in a coffin-like box and I pay for it, what of it? I have to cure my S.A.D.ness somehow), checking out a new apartment possibility, celebrating Allison's birthday, hello Super Bowl Sunday, and finallllllllllllly changing my iPod playlist (o god please). What are you up to?

1. Grace Elements Stripe Tee, $Free, work.
2. Banana Republic Black Vneck Cardi, $Free, I found it at the bar.
3. IDK Gray Cardi, $Free, handmedown from Rachel.
4. Denim Legging Jeans, $12.50, Forever 21.
5. Miss Bisou Gray Wedges, $16, Sears.
6. Missoni Scarf (in hair), $Free, gift from Rachel.
7. RayBan Wayfarers, $130, technically a trade with Rachel.

CREEPY GOOD

2010-02-03T11:35:00.002-05:00

Started seeing these all over NYC this week:

photos

very hopeful,
afraid of disappointment.
still excited.

WATCHES > JEWELRY

2010-02-01T10:00:00.005-05:00

Saw this at Chanel Spring 2010

Style.com (obvi my edits)

So I tried it out with some gold necklaces

I was kind of bummed for no real reason, so I made this nontraditional King Cake from scratch.

Tastes freaking excellent.

1. Vintage Embellished Cardigan, $6.25 (employee discount), work.
2. Organic White Pocket Tee, $5.00, H&M.
3. 2 Gold Necklaces with floral pendant, $2.00, gift and thrifted.
4. Silence & Noise High Waisted Denim, $19.50, Buffalo Exchange.
5. Vintage Bass Oxfords, $2.00, thrifted.

99 POSTS

2010-01-30T00:09:00.008-05:00

Vogue Italia

It seems better than celebrating the 100th. That and I'm antsy to talk about things.
So:
1) I feel really really special whenever I read your comments.
2) I feel really really really extra awesome when there are new followers.
3) Both these things introduce me to new and awesome reads and interweb paths that are just like my brain, which I like.

Which brings me to:
A) I want to work on updating and expanding my blogroll.
B) I want to work on updating and expanding my brain.

Which means:
i) Let's play link exchange!

Or, if lazy:
ii) Just give me your link.

WE ALL WIN.

F-CARDS

2010-01-27T01:06:00.002-05:00

Can you remember the moment you first fell in love... with fashion? I do! I do! Way back in the 6th grade, it was the moody Amber Valletta for Prada ads that made a lasting impression. Suddenly my cartoon-ish drawings (I was always an artiste) became thoughtful mixtures of texture, design, and style. Eventually these drawings turned into "collections" (um yes I still have that notebook somewhere) featuring red bandeau tops over button downs, tuxedo pants, and 50s ball gowns with peter pan collars (my influences were eclectic OK) all with an anime-ish bent (cuz I was into that stuff) (and it was the 90s). Anywho, those Prada ads stayed tacked to my walls even through high school.

I give you my love affair, Prada, circa 1996-1997.

I couldn't find my favorite one--Amber is in a boat on a lake, wearing the daintiest of sheer slip dresses. OH IT IS SO GOOD.

To this day Prada and Miu Miu are still my number ones. Just look at these tangerine lips!

These sunglasses with their perfect amount of cat-eyedness and space-agehood, I MUST HAVE THEM. And pigtails. Obviously, I'm way into that.

STUNNING. BEAUTY.

Steven Meisel shot the campaign. He also did the Missoni ads I was ooh-ing and aw-ing over last season.

If Tavi has Rei, then I'll take Miuccia.

BE WEDNESDAY ADDAMS FOR A MINUTE

2010-01-23T16:43:00.010-05:00

You know when you put on an outfit and you're like "yeahhhhh, this one feels like me" and you want to wear it everyday for the next three days and feel pretty damn good about your sheer genius and the state of the world in general? Well, that's how I feel today-- gothic, girly, grunge and lolita all rolled into one. I love it.

I'm submitting this one to Weardrobe's Best Winter Accessories look because this scarf is oh-so-adorable. It has rows and rows of fluffy white pom poms on the ends that make me feel like a little lamb.

1. Thrifted Angie dress, $4.
2. Unbranded black cardigan, $Free from work.
3. Secondhand Sisley scarf, $4.50, work.
4. Fleurish legging pants, $39, Dillard's.
5. Stripey socks, $Free, gift from grandma (aww).
6. Natural Comfort platforms, $20, The Dressing Room.

GOLDEN GLOBES, I LIVE UNDER A ROCK OK?

2010-01-19T23:34:00.008-05:00

So I never watch these things because all I care about is Joanie River's fashion round-up, but when I saw Betty Draper looking like this, I had to say something.

January in Lanvin. PHOTO.
Apparently looking amazingly awesome on the red carpet is January's thing. Between the understated glamor, the statuesque column shape, the (relatively) heavy fabric, and the lack of jeweled adornments, everything about this look is gorgeous. The headband is the modern equivalent to Audrey's Breakfast at Tiffany's tiara. I mean, it's black and it's not totally boring! or overtly sexy! Looks this effortless make me wonder how celebrities ever manage to screw it up so badly.

BONUS: If you watch Love Actually, then you'll notice that January Jones is one of the hot American girls that the limey Brit meets at the bar in Milwaukee. "We're so poor we only have one bed...." "And we can't even afford pajamas..." (or something to that effect) Yeah, I didn't remember that part either.

And Emily Blunt. I don't know who she is (for shame--was she the other bitchy one in The Devil Wears Prada??). The pink is an absolute dream. Her arms are a little too tan for her face and it's the dead of winter, but hey, she still looks lovely.

Emily wears Dolce and Gabbana. PHOTO
That's just her fiance Jim. John. Whatever. TV confuses me.

SEE, I DIDN'T SAY DIEEEE

2010-01-19T00:09:00.013-05:00

This warm weather has me feeling spring feverish. Symptoms: I could not possibly resist this 3 pack of sweet anklets from the guys at JCrewsy.

Normally I would not willingly shell out so much for a couple of nylon stockinged feet (24.50/3 pair), but the colors of these are just so insane in the brain perfect. Soft coral pink, marigold honey, and cinnamon spice--how great are they going to look next to my pumpkin platforms and those denim shorts I always wear?

They're so Miu Miu I could hurl.

WHAT'S WITH YOU AND BIRDS?

2010-01-11T22:06:00.010-05:00

How do I love thee? Let me count the ways--

Bat wings

Bishop sleeves

Cosby sweaterishness

Three!

1. Vintage sweater (thrifted) $5, American Eagle shorts $39.50, Natural Comfort platforms $20

MAKE STUFF

2010-01-09T14:22:00.006-05:00

One of my 2010 resolutions is to "make more stuff" --especially of the edible variety. My mom is actually a great cook, but I spent my formative cooking years away at school essentially finding creative ways to not cook.
(mac 'n cheese...pasta with sauce...and um... salad?)

So I was pleased as punch that my new boss remarked at "how domestic I am" when I brought in this batch of pretty peppermint bark for all my work homies.

I made a double boiler out of two pots and somehow managed to not burn the chocolate, which is pretty awesome considering how quickly the stuff melts and how tricky my boiling set up was.

Tonight I am attempting vegetarian chili. Wish me luck!

PUFFERY

2010-01-04T23:09:00.013-05:00

I've never given much thought to coats before moving to the snow globe that is NYC, but during this "feels like -1" weather, it's been the only thing on my mind. Yesterday I finally broke down and got one of these things, and let me tell you, it's pretty much the warmest thing since sliced bread.

I do like that it is navy with a bit of sheen (as opposed to matte black) and has an interesting "puff" pattern. Details, details details = $, $, $. But secret...! it's a FUBU kids jacket I got for 8 bucks at the corner Salvation Army. After plucking off a few dastardly crystals (ew 1999 Britney), I bet no one can tell.

Now I'm all EFF YEW winter, I'll wear what I want. I'LL EVEN WEAR SHORTS. HA.

HA HA HA HA HA HA.

anddddd..ddd...d..d... the best part is that I can totally do the happy penguin dance.

(flap flap flap your arms at your sides)

1. Navy Fubu Puffer 2. Ann Taylor Silk Blouse 3. Black v-neck from Ross 5 years ago 4. Vintage menswear stripe shorts (thrifted) 5. UO black stirrup/ballet leggings 6. Vintage Bass white oxfords (thrifted)

BLUE VELVET

2010-01-01T22:59:00.007-05:00

Happy 2010!

We started off low-key at Ontario bar, ringing in the new year to Das Racist's Combination Pizza Hut and Taco Bell, which was pretty much our jam for 2009. I nabbed a new year's crown, black ostrich feather and gold kazoo, and then decided I was ready to head to The Woods for some serious dancing UNTIL 5 AM PEOPLE. You probably remember me as the girl with the balloon tied around my wrist.

Now on to those resolutions...

CAN I JUST SAY

2009-12-28T00:50:00.001-05:00

that Karen Elson looks UH-mazing.

h & m

lula

Kind of making me rethink my anti-red hair plans.

BALMAIN, TOO MUCH OF AN OK THING

2009-12-22T23:45:00.000-05:00

BIG BIG HUGS to Jane Keltner, fashion news editor at Teen Vogue, who has the awesome skill of reading my mind. In a brief one page manifesto in the Dec/Jan issue, she offers an informed and pleasant critique of what she (and now I) dubs THE BALMAINETTES.

photo 1, photo 2, photo 3

You know them, you love them, you loathe them. Copycats clothed in black minis, serious shooties, and rockstar attitude, it's the night time version of the "model off-duty" look. And quite frankly, I am so bored. Not all of us want a badass uniform.

Give me something fresh, individualistic and smidge more subtle, so that, you know, I can feel something. Or think something.

Oh Jane, it feels good to know that I am not alone.

SOUTHERN COMFORTS, BISCUITS AND GRAVY

2009-12-20T23:01:00.001-05:00

I'm just gonna go ahead and declare this my brunch dress.

I always seem to end up there.

Once I had a sister day with Rachel. We went to Lodge where I had biscuits with veggie sausage and gravy and Rachel had some sort of grits and pork thing (ew). We differ on matters both fashion and food.

I went as Miu Miu with seagull prints and platforms.

Rachel was Ralph Lauren Pocahontas + 90s baby backpack.

Another day I had unexpected brunch with Ben and his old roommate who designs textile prints for OshKoshB'gosh (how awesome is that?!).

These mustard tights make my life.

We went to Anima where I had a frittata with goat cheese and fresh veggies and the bartender treated us to a round of "morning shots," aka chocolate cakes? I'm not sure, I think they were vodka.

1. Urban Outfitters zipper seagull dress, borrowed scarf, Ross v neck sweater, Natural Comfort platforms
2. Urban Outfitters zipper seagull dress, borrowed necklace, Gap wool cardi, HUE tights, Natural Comfort platforms

SNOW AND PERRIER

2009-12-19T22:58:00.006-05:00

Lemme just say that it is snowing like crazy here in NYC. Since I hail from the sunny (and warm) south, I pretty much count this as my first real snow!

I love how it glitters. SNOW.IS. AMAZING.

During hibernation house cleaning today, I found this bit of inspiration I pulled from PAPER magazine a couple of months ago.

ALSO AMAZING! LIKE SNOW! BUT NOW IN NON-MELTING, 2D VERSION!

The scroll-iness is sort of art nouveau-y (and honestly, who doesn't love art nouveau?), but there is something more rigid and art deco-y going on too. Does this mean it is really arts and crafts? Art history majors, please give me your expert opinions.

The green is much more intense than my non-flash picture allows, which is an apt choice. The green bottle is unmistakeably identified to the bubbly stuff. That and my grandmother's house, where bottles and bottles were stored under an antique pie safe.

As is the case with inspirations, I am now on the hunt for Perrier.

I'M NOT A PLAYER

2009-11-29T12:30:00.010-05:00

I just crush a lot. Like, a lot A LOT. Current objets de resistance:

1. Tangerine Lips. A pop of spicy orange against winter skin and a sea of black puffers is so inviting.

2. Chocolate covered pretzels. YUM.
3. Velvet! For being 17th century extravagant!
4. Chanel style jacket. It's a classic duh, but I especially like it when it's all cool and casual with a white Hanes tee and ex boyfriend jeans.
5. Paul Dano. You interest me.
6. Forest green. Once a loathsome shade, it's now on my list of must-have non-neutral neutrals.
7. (Faux) Fur. Now with stripeys!
8. Red tights. Go with me on this.
9. Stripes. Thin and 70s, mix them together. I grow tired of electric buffalo plaids.
10. Denim shirts, denim skirts, denim everything! I've been a lover since Day One. Annnnnnd, style.com is catching on too.

HAPPY THANKSGIVING Y'ALL

2009-11-26T13:43:00.008-05:00

It's a surprisingly warm and sunny day in Brooklyn. So much so that I had to lose my scarf!

SUNSHINE I LOVE YOU

In a few minutes I'll be heading to an orphan Thanksgiving at Matt's house.
I'm bringing the blueberry crisp and booze.
.~*LOL*~.

Things to be thankful for: having the day off, the brilliant sun, tights as pants (in my house!), hot chocolate & cinnamon, my faithful readers, fashion epiphanies, hometown visitors, and my new job. Last but not least, I'd like to thank FACEBOOK CHAT, without which NY would be a much lonelier place.
Cheers.

navy lace tank F21; knit cardi UrbanOutfitters; plaid scarf Thrifted; black mini Thrifted Old Navy; jazz booties Nine West

DAUL KIM

2009-11-20T00:53:00.005-05:00

I love your words.

HALF FULL

2009-11-13T22:49:00.009-05:00

It's funny how a new reference can totally change your view on an old piece. I thrifted this XXL shirt a while ago, but never got around to wearing it because the collar fell open a little too widely.

Securing the offensive collar with a safety pin took it from sleazy 70s to quirky ingenue. The inspiration, of course, was Miu Miu Spring 2010. There is even a stripe of smocking across the top!

(Raybans make one look cooler than one is.)

The zany dots are kind of Marc by Marc Jacobsy.

Rayban sunglasses, Gap cardi, vintage SHIRT as DRESS, Urban Outfitters necklace, vintage boots

I AM A CAT

2009-11-01T11:18:00.013-05:00

I had the awesome responsibility of closing at work last night, so I wasn't too thrilled about Halloween this year, even though it is my favorite holiday (costumes + chocolate, plz and thx). About an hour before work I realized that my original costume idea (a frumpy librarian) was not going to work out, so I threw together these cat (slightly bat) ears, donned all black, and decided to call myself a magic cat, which, dare I say, is better than a regular cat.

With everyone attempting to have the sexiest/most original/ironic costume, getting back to the basics seemed fresh again. Last year, I was Daria.

What do you think? What was your Halloween costume this year?

I DIE FOR MIU MIU

2009-10-27T09:10:00.001-04:00

There's nothing like a good Miu Miu show to give one the proverbial kick in the pants. In May I pretended like I would be resurrecting in September, but with travel plans, moving to a new place, and a month long computer crash, the end of October came sooner than expected. What happened to summer?

The oversized pointy collars and billowy bishop sleeves throwback to the early 70s/Miu Miu's uh-mazing harlequin theater collection circa Spring 2008 (still crushing on it). The sweet printed skirts are ever so slightly lolita (which, incidentally, I am reading right now).

^^jewel encrustations for the win^^

While some of the cut-outs and proportions weren't so easy to grasp, in general, I die. Like lit-er-all-y, I DIE.

seriously dead.
so
dead.

P.S. Dress sexy at my funeral.
P.P.S. Bury me in Miu Miu.

images via Style

THE END

2009-05-17T19:42:00.005-04:00

I won't flatter myself and think that you all have been sitting on the edge of your seats for this post, but it has been a while and I suppose an explanation is necessary. Yes there were finals to take and students' papers to grade (84 of them to be exact), but mostly there was moving across the country with 2 weeks notification to get a handle on. The ebay post was your first clue.

By the time you read this I'll already be settling into NYC life. Remember that SUPER IMPORTANT interview I had a month ago with a SUPER IMPORTANT fashion magazine? Well, I got the gig. And it is BEYOND AWESOME. So epic, unbelievable and wonderful. I am so very grateful and so very lucky. NYC bloggers, let's hang this summer.

And now for the sad news. I have decided that Ashford Gets Dressed will be taking a break. My hours are long and I'm under a strict confidentiality contract at my internship so it would be best if I don't publish at all. I want to let you all know that I still keep up with your blogs (constant inspiration!) and will remain a part of the community. Fingers crossed, AGD will be resurrected at the end of my internship.

To my blog friends, real friends, and those who became both --lots of love and luck this summer.
See you in September.

THE THRILL OF THE BID

2009-05-06T16:03:00.002-04:00

Check out my ebayyyy

Stuff is for sale.
Edit: Everything sold.

DEFENSE

2009-04-29T22:56:00.003-04:00

On my way to becoming a Master today, I wore this:

secondhand Banana Republic silk dress, Antonio Melani studded tan t-straps

I don't know what happened to my left hand there, but it doesn't matter. It's Ms. Master of Philosophy to you now, thank you. I am ridiculously happy and relieved and ready to conquer the world. But first, celebrations!

CRAWFISH NOT CRAYFISH

2009-04-19T23:31:00.008-04:00

Sorry for the absence--I have to finish the final draft of my thesis by Wednesday. AAAhhhhhhIIIIiii can't wait until it's over. Diplo and Firefly will be waiting for me come April 29. Have you all tried this sweet tea vodka nonsense? Beyond awesome.

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There aren't many southern traditions I adhere to, but sweet tea is one of them. The other is crawfish boils. On Saturday I went to my first one of the season. There were 2 kiddie pools and several basins teeming with the creepy crawly guys--over 200 lbs! I'm a very picky eater so trust me when I tell you that these things are worth it. If you ever make it to Louisiana, you'll definitely want to try it. I'll even peel one for you! I promise we won't suck the heads because that's just gross. Other deliciously spicy edibles thrown into the boiling mix include corn on the cob (my personal fav), potatoes, mushrooms, garlic, etc. Oh, and here is what I wore:

Tolani scarf, BDG stripe tee, Vintage Gloria Vanderbilt bag, American Eagle destroy shorts, Enigma bling bling sandals

Yep, that's my new Tolani scarf courtesy of Erika of Fashion Chalet and chickdowntown.com. So luxe! So chic! Love!

SSSSSSsssssssss watch out for my sssnakes! And sssscary toes! ha. I make myself laugh.

I love the zigzaggy North African/Tunisian vibe of the knit. Plus it's reallllly cozy. Definitely putting it in heavy wardrobe rotation. Thanks again, loves!

LATENT REALITIES

2009-04-12T22:09:00.016-04:00

A couple months ago, I introduced you all to pretty much my favorite artist ever, Egon Schiele. Now it's time for round two: Paul Klee.

Fire in the Evening, 1929

I get very picky when it comes to abstract art, especially when it gets all cubist-y, mostly because geometric shapes completely offend me. I cannot tolerate a straight line. It's just so... unnatural! My aversion stems all the way back to my kindergarten years when cutting in a straight line was not my strong suit. (It's still not.) Right angles just feel blasphemous, no?

Fish Magic, 1925

I am reminded of the time when MattBry and I tried to paint together and it ended in a battle of opposing, underlying philosophical foundations on art and world that had hitherto remained buried. My attempt to blend his completely linear, harsh cityscape into the wild brush of the landscape I was working on was met with fire. Crazy. red-headed. fire.

Ghost of a Genius

But Paul Klee. When he's good, he's golden.
"Formerly we used to represent things visible on earth,' he wrote in 1920, 'things we either liked to look at or would have liked to see. Today we reveal the reality that is behind visible things, thus expressing the belief that the visible world is merely an isolated case in relation to the universe and that there are many more other, latent realities ..."

The Twittering Machine, 1920

How apropos.

In other news, I received my prize from chickdowntown.com that I won last week. Expect a fun fashion pfoto post next. Annnnnnnnnnnndddd... I finished the rough draft of my thesis. It's only 13,761 words, roughly 50 pages NBD.

POISON PARADISE

2009-04-10T01:14:00.010-04:00

Basically the best prints ever-- Basso & Brooke fall 2009.

Discuss.

save fabric, print your design

teal, orange, sunshine, aqua, mustard, gold
gorgeous

art nouveau fantastique
style.com

THIS JUST IN

2009-04-04T15:34:00.007-04:00

I woke up this morning bummed about a full day of thesis writing ahead, and then I watched this.

I've got a golden ticket! Yes, I've got a golden ticket!
Special thanks to Erika from Fashion Chalet and Chickdowntown. I can't wait to get it in the mail and experiment. Expect a photo post soon!